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Creative Ways to Give Your Man the Best Orgasm He’s Ever Had

They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but I don’t agree with that. I think “the way” is located a little lower than the stomach in a place called the groin. After all, most guys make their decisions based on the feelings they get down there anyway, am I right?

As a sexual partner with a horny man to please, it’s important to learn tips and techniques to keep him happy. While he may not necessarily say anything or run to someone else’s bed, making your fella feel like a million bucks is your duty. After you’re done pleasing him like a pro with the following tricks, you’ll both get to enjoy a more solidified bond.

The Top 7 Tricks to Increase Your Man’s Orgasm Intensity

Most likely, he’s going to get off whether you get into it or not. You can at least give him something to remember by pulling one the following tricks of your bag:

  • Change Positions

There’s nothing wrong with switching things up, especially when it comes to your lovemaking positions. While there are a few staple poses that seem to bring pleasure to both participants, new positioning attempts can bring fun, excitement and increased pleasure into your bedroom. The best part is that this trick is appropriate for every single individual who’s sexually active. Furthermore, the sex industry has thousands of pillows, wedges and other pieces of erotic furniture made specifically for those who have problems with mobility. Don’t let your body type be an excuse anymore.

  • Put on Something Sexy

This is a trick that has withstood the test of time, and your man is no exception to its alluring powers. He’s used to seeing you in your casual clothes, your business attire and even your everyday pajamas. Give him a reminder of why he thought you were attractive in the first place by showcasing your goods with some sexy gear. Your options are virtually endless and you can easily customize nearly anything you find. And don’t worry about your figure or flaws because your confidence will be the only thing you’re wearing by the end of the night.

  • Play with BDSM

BDSM stands for bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism. It was once viewed as a taboo lifestyle choice reserved for the mentally disturbed. However, today’s opinion is much more open-minded about a therapeutic form of erotica that has gained millions of followers in the last few decades. Meanwhile, restraining your man’s arms and legs while you suck and fuck is never an unwelcomed activity. Be sure to stock up on plenty of rope, handcuffs and handkerchiefs because your guy will love being out of control. (NOTE: Always communicate about boundaries before trying something like this.)

  • Use Texturized Condoms

Regular sex is always a treat for a horny partner, but why not spice it up by adding some extra textures to the genital region? This trick not only increases friction but it also adds to the amount of pleasure both participants receive. Think about it: You, on top, feel the ribbing and become overwhelmed with passion. He, on bottom, watching you lose your mind and getting off like it’s your very first time. Texturized condoms can make that happen, so grab a few and keep them in the bedside table just in case they’re needed.

  • Integrate Some Sex Toys for Men

Once upon a time, the world didn’t have many options for the pent-up playboy without a willing partner. His choices consisted of his hand, a homemade fifi, or a low-quality pleasure product that only slightly increased his pleasure. At one point, dudes even used hollowed-out vegetables and animal skins to get their fix. These days, however, there are more sex toys for men than there has ever been before, with devices ranging from penile stimulators, oral sex simulators, virtual reality masturbators and prostate massaging machines just to name a few. Bring one of those bad boys into the bedroom and it’s lights out on his endurance.

  • Take Him on a Journey Through His Senses

Did you know that the human body has literally millions of delicate nerve endings? Did you also know that your man has more than one sensitive area on his body? Males possess the same number of erogenous zones as women, meaning you can tickle and tease his senses just as much as he does yours. Things like massage, temperature play, electrostimulation (e-stim), and sensory deprivation are just four of the most popular forms of this activity. Incorporate a sensual journey into your foreplay routine to increase his relaxation, anticipation and ejaculation.

  • Let Him Be the One Penetrated

Not all men will be comfortable with this trick, but most guys end up loving a little butt play once in a while after they’ve tried it for the first time. Simply stick your little finger inside the inner rim of your man’s anus for a quickening or add slight pressure to his undercarriage to get him used to the sensation. After he’s over the initial shock, integrate some anal sex toys into the mix to make him cum like never before. There’s actually a gland up inside his ass called the prostate, and when stimulated it can cause a completely new kind of sensation that your man will surely love. The hardest part is getting over the hump of taboo, so educate yourselves to make sure you’re not missing out on anything amazing.

Putting It All Together

Sex is fun, but it’s also necessary. Recent studies have found that modern-day men need to ejaculate at least 20-30 times per month to enjoy peak overall health. You wouldn’t want your man to get sick, now would you? Help him experience the kinds of orgasms he needs to be in top physical condition because, let’s face it, you need him to fuck you as bad as he needs you to fuck him. …

How to Determine Your Kink

According to recent studies, almost every person on the planet has some kind of kink that they’re either interested in trying or desperate to keep doing. Having a special kind of sexual interaction that you like the most does not make you a freak, at least not anymore. In fact, there are now entire communities of perverted people who band together under common interests, and many of those interests are not exactly mainstream.

For a lot of people, discovering a kink isn’t such an easy thing. Not only do we have to navigate our way through various social taboos and personal hang-ups, but we must also educate ourselves on what’s out there. Not knowing your options is the quickest way to develop a distaste for the tastefully kinky. Fortunately, there are a few surefire ways to figure out your fetish before it becomes a thing of the past.

What Is a Kink or Fetish?

The most trusted dictionaries in the world define a “fetish” as an activity or object which delivers sexual gratification to the participant and is often linked to an abnormal degree of lust, attraction or appreciation to a specific item such as an article of clothing, a part of the body or an erotic action. In other words, it’s a finely tuned fixation or compulsion that drives a person’s libido.

A fetish can be many different things, from feet and shoes to smoking and fisting. Those still apprehensive about fetishes obviously don’t realize their long history within the annuls of mankind. Although seen as offensive or off-limits by many people throughout the world, healthy fetishes have the ability to supercharge a person’s sex drive while increasing their confidence and skillset in the bedroom. Discovering kinks and fetishes is therefore an exercise in wholeness.

What Are Some of the Most Popular Kinks?

The modern-day world is a wild and crazy place, which means more and more people are becoming comfortable with their inner voices and carnal desires. Back in the day, kinky individuals had to lie, cheat and steal just to get their rocks off. These days, however, the following fetishes are considered relatively vanilla:

  • Abduction Play
  • Anal Training
  • Ass Worship
  • Ball Stretching
  • Bare Bottom Spanking
  • BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism and Masochism)
  • Belly Dancing
  • Big Tits
  • Bimbofication
  • Biting
  • Boot Licking
  • Bukkake
  • Caging and Confinement
  • Chastity
  • Choking
  • Corporal Punishment
  • Costumes
  • Cunnilingus
  • Daddy/Daughter Role Play
  • Degradation
  • Domestic Servitude
  • Domination
  • Exhibitionism
  • Fetish Wear
  • Fire Play
  • Flogging
  • Foot Worship
  • Gender Play
  • Group Sex
  • Hentai
  • Humiliation
  • Impact Play
  • Lactation
  • Latex
  • Master/Mistress and Slave
  • Mutual Masturbation
  • Orgasm Denial
  • Panty Sniffing
  • Polyamory
  • Porn
  • Rituals
  • Ropes
  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Sex Toys
  • Squirting
  • Teasing
  • Voyeurism
  • Wax
  • Webcams
  • Whips

This is by no means an exhaustive list. Keep in mind that there are literally hundreds of other fetishes and kinks to choose from, plus there’s no rule that says you can’t come up with a few of your own. One of the most popular things for people to do is mix and match kinks to find the one that’s ideal for their unique personality. Picking the right fetish is only a matter of examining your personality and the personalities of the partner(s) you’re having sex and/or masturbating with.

Tips for Determining Your Favorite Fetish

People are unique creatures with a wide variety of compulsions and you’re no exception. To determine which kinks are mostly likely enjoyable to you and/or your partner(s), be sure to go through the following checklist:

  • Think About Your Body Type

Body concerns are a big deal when it comes to figuring out and experimenting with various kinks and fetishes. Those who have mobility limitations are often excluded from certain kinks, although the sex toy industry is doing a good job of keeping up with the increasing demand for more user-friendly pleasure products. Think about the bodies involved in each sexual scene you create so that everyone can enjoy the maximum amount of satisfaction.

  • Consider Your Lifestyle

Some kinks and fetishes aren’t ideal for all lifestyles. For example, 24/7 BDSM habits don’t always mesh with what you have going on around the house and loud or dangerous game play isn’t always appropriate when there are other people sharing your space. So, while your lifestyle may help shape the things you’re introduced to, it is not by any means a limitation on what you can experience. In fact, there are groups you can join to learn more about the things that interest you the most.

  • Keep Track of Your Budget

Developing a kink and/or discovering a fetish can get to be very expensive if you’re not careful. Certain options require special skills and equipment for maximum enjoyment, meaning you’ll likely have to invest in things like sex toys, body restraints, personal lubricant, device cleaning supplies and storage containers for all your stuff. Irresponsible ownership and a lack of due diligence can leave you wishing you’d followed this advice more closely.

Getting the Proper Supplies

Procuring the proper supplies for your newfound kink isn’t as difficult as it might seem. Today’s industry for pleasure products is beyond massive, with a little something available for every taste, experience level and fetish. Modern-day manufacturers have taken special care to develop intriguing devices and accessories that are easy to use even for someone who’s relatively unfamiliar with these things. Unfortunately, that massive selection can make it hard for some people to find what they’re truly looking for.

To find the right equipment for your latest and greatest craze, be sure to always shop through a reputable dealer that has a direct affiliation with the product’s manufacturer. Never opt for knockoffs just to save a few bucks. You’ll find numerous imitations of the best items, but there can only be one at the top of the list. Narrow your search a little bit more by quickly reading over some candid customer reviews and by studying a few buyer’s guides on the products you’re interested in the most. Usually, you’ll be directed towards your ideal stash pretty swiftly that way.